As my closest friends know I moved from my home in Nebraska to be with my girlfriend here in Baldwin Park, California. What no one knows is that along with my girl lives her aunt, cousin, and her cousins girlfriend. Recently I have been trying to clean up around this house because no one seems to care about living neatly. There are also 2 cats that stay inside all day everyday which makes the house smell funny. The 3 other occupants of this house do basically nothing to clean the inside. My girlfriend works night and has little time to help clean anyways which makes her exempt from quite a bit of cleaning at home. Which leaves me and my free time. I like living in a house where I can be pround of where I live. Apparently that is not the way things go here. This morning I found our clenaest bathroom door open which it shouldnt be because the cats liek to get in there and destroy anything that rips. Low and behold a roll of our toilet paper was gone and one single piece of it lay on the floor, but the roll was gone...... I only had to think where tha cats take everything... to their favorite spot. What do I find? YES!!.... the entire roll was obliterated into tiny pieces no larger than an inch!!.... Right then I was out for blood. I knew it was my girlfriend's cousin and or his girlfreind that left the door open. They knew for so long to never leave that door open. Hell they have lived here for years!!!, and I have only lived here for 3 months and I always shut the door. Despite the fact that they never clean, never help with chores, stay up late and smoke weed or drink all the time is something I thought I could deal with. Until today..... Another small fact is that her aunt smokes in her room frequently and she doesnt care that there are non-smokers that live under this roof. We could tell her and yell at her to stop, but that would never work because I think she isn'r running on all cylinders... if you know what I mean. With everything that goes on in this house and in their family I have begun to think twice about a life here. It doesnt help that my girlfriends mom won't let her move out of this house until she svaes up enough money to buy a place of her own, which could take a year or more. By the way, this house was her grandparents house and it was well taken care of until they all moved in. To simplify my rant.... I would like any and all opinions from my BOC family about this situation. I followed my heart to move back here, and now I am thinking harder about not staying. Since my move here to the BOC I hope this doesn't go too far or is asking too much of anyone.