My father-in-law is dying and has hrs if not a day or two left to live. He's in a St. Louis hospital. Please pray for him. I need prayers also cause my ex called me tonight. It is the first time I talked to her in months. She called me to tell me about him. I already knew because I talk to my step-mother-in-law. My ex and I don't talk because I HATE her sooooo much. Long story that I wish not to get into. i know hate is a really bad word but I really do HATE her. I feel I have to make amends with her just for my health and sanity. She has screwed up my relationship with my son and I feel my daughter is not far behind. It's all about the mighty $$$! I miss and love my father-in-law so much. He never thought of me as his ex son-in-law. (she divorced me is what he told ex). I need advice from someone that has maybe been through this before. I know that I'm going to have to see her again during the memorial service but I don't know if I can handle it. I can't even stand to hear her name. Is there someone out there that can give me some advice? I really want to see him before his passing but she is there. How can I go to the memorial service with out dealing with her? Is it possible? I'm really hurting here.