I'm back home from surgery! Everything went great, nothing out of the ordinary. I was not expecting to be so dependent afterward, just from the way the described it to me it sounded like nothing well that wasn't the case. Oh well, my kidney is fixed (for now) and I should be back to normal in a couple weeks. I'm just glad it's over with. Through the process I found out just how good of a wife, family, and friends I have....I'm very blessed in that aspect.