Well, it's been some time since I was on these boards, and i sure have missed you all! Been trying and trying to get my family back on it's feet for the past year, and for the past year my girl did everything in her power to make sure that the LEAST important bills were taken care of first, among other seemingly sabotage oriented activities, and the other day we had our final blow out over it when faced with a 2nd eviction in one year. Ladies and gents, I'm DONE! I'm out of there now, at her suggestion (although I'm currently under the impression it was intended as a bluff and that she's now somewhat floored that I quickly agreed to "...just go find someplace else to live!" when she shouted it in the middle of our last arguement over how she is prioritizing the income and outflow of our money, NONE of which was she actually bringing in, by the way. When someone decides that cable needs to be paid before the tags or insurrance on the family car, something is WRONG!! Anyhow, I made sure there was enough to stop the eviction she was looking down the barel of so the kids and her will have a place to stay for the rest of the month at least, and shouldn't have trouble now getting state aid with me no longer "making too much money" as she tells me that they claimed whe she finally got off her duff and applied for help (2 months after she was supposed to have gone down and done it, mind you!). I plan on making sure that I look after the boys financially and keep tabs on what is going on over there for their sake, but beyond that, she's on her own and I'm free of the whole dang mess! Of course you all know what THIS means, right?? I can FINALLY get the finances organized in a logical manner and have something left when the bills are paid in order to GO FISHIN'!!