As a member of the BOC for a few years, I've seen many people join up since we've moved to this new site that really don't want to get involved, just want to take as much information and get as much help as they can and will not give so much as a first name. Nobody on this site will come to your door uninvited, but if invited to your house, gathering or just the chat room, you'll meet the best on the internet. There are those that aren't worth the time of day. As much as it may be hard to believe, even I have been busted a few times and suspended . So I say, if you want to be apart of the BOC, then do it. If you want to remain a stranger, then I've got no time for you.