Brothers and sisters, I am not a man that asks for much. I have always counted on my self to fix problems and personal turmoil. My wife Tammy has ask me for a dissolution after eleven years of marriage. I have seen my marriage through good times and bad. As some of you may remember we went through her battle with cancer and won! I am very sad to say that she is now a different person after the fight. It has been over three years now and Tammy has her health back physically to some extent, but not her mental state. I do not want or deserve this, but that's how it is going down. I need the support of my brothers and sisters to help me get through this, what ever the out come. I ask you this, and believe me when I say, that it is hard for me to ask for help. Please ask God to help me get through this time of trouble and devastation. I truly believe that God brought us together, but if it is His will that we part ways, I will have to accept it, but that doesn't mean I have to like it. If ever I needed help it's now. I am a good man. Why do things like this happen?