Garbage Trucks

Discussion in 'General Conversation' started by Angelkitty, Aug 26, 2007.

  1. Angelkitty

    Angelkitty New Member

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    Garbage Trucks
    How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood? Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive employee ruin your day? Unless you're the
    Terminator, for an instant you're probably set back on your
    heels. However, the mark of a successful person is how quickly
    one can get back their focus on what's important.

    Sixteen years ago I learned this lesson. I learned it in the back of a New York City taxi cab.
    Here's what happened.

    I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Grand Central Station. We were driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us.
    My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded,
    and missed the other car's back end by just inches!

    The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident, whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us.
    My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy.
    And I mean, he was friendly.
    So, I said, "Why did you just do that?
    This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!"

    And this is when my taxi driver told me what I
    now call, "The Law of the Garbage Truck."

    “Many people are like garbage trucks.
    They run around full of garbage, full of frustration,
    full of anger, and full of disappointment.
    As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it.
    And if you let them, they'll dump it on you.

    When someone wants to dump on you, don't take it personally.
    You just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on.
    You'll be happy you did.”

    So this was it: The "Law of the Garbage Truck."
    I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over me?
    And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people:
    at work, at home, on the streets?
    It was that day I said, "I'm not going to do it anymore."

    I began to see garbage trucks.
    Like in the movie "The Sixth Sense," the little boy said, "I see Dead People."

    Well, now "I see Garbage Trucks."
    I see the load they're carrying.
    I see them coming to drop it off.
    And like my Taxi Driver, I don't make it a personal thing;
    I just smile, wave, wish them well, and I move on.

    One of my favorite football players of all time, Walter Payton,
    did this every day on the
    football field.
    He would jump up as quickly as he hit the ground after being tackled.

    He never dwelled on a hit.
    Payton was ready to make the next play his best.
    Good leaders know they have to be ready for their next meeting.

    Good parents know that they have to welcome their children home
    from school with hugs and kisses.
    Leaders and parents know that they have to be fully present,
    and at their best for the people they care about.

    The bottom line is that successful people
    do not let Garbage Trucks take over their day.

    What about you?
    What would happen in your life, starting today,
    if you let more garbage trucks pass you by?

    Here's my bet.
    You'll be happier.

    Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so..
    Love the people who treat you right.
    Forget about the ones who don't.
    Believe that everything happens for a reason.
    If you get a chance , TAKE IT!
    If it changes your life , LET IT!
    Nobody said it would be easy...
    They just promised it would be worth it!
     
  2. whiskers77

    whiskers77 New Member

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    Great post! Thank you for sharing that with us. That is a very interesting perspective and the way we should look at such situations.
     

  3. oldgrowler

    oldgrowler New Member

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    Great Post. Thanks for sharing. Nice attitude to keep.
     
  4. AwShucks

    AwShucks New Member

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    Yep, that is what it was like at keystone... just a bunch of garbage.
     
  5. Mickey

    Mickey New Member Supporting Member

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    Great post. Sometimes it is not easy on the receiving end. Thanks for sharing. I'll try to do better.:wink:
     
  6. Mi11er

    Mi11er New Member

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    great post :big_smile::big_smile:
     
  7. BIG GEORGE

    BIG GEORGE New Member

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    I just make dam sure ya have a worse day or mood than you are tryin to force on me. LOL!
     
  8. pythonjohn

    pythonjohn New Member Supporting Member

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    Thanks for that post!
    I have been living by it for the last several years and it works!
    I didn't know it was call the GARBAGE TRUCK THEORY though. :roll_eyes:
    Whats that old saying "One mans gabage is another man Trash".....Or somting like that. ??? :wink:
    Enjoyed your post