I am getting married in June. My fiance and I have got a house and like any other house, it needs some very minor repairs and adjustments. She has moved in for now until after the wedding when we both move in. The thing is several friends and others have offered to help with anything that needs done, which I appreciate and would like to have them help. Trouble is, my fiance's parents are ALWAYS over there doing something to the house!! They have been over there every single day for the last 3-4 weeks. Yesterday I went over there and her dad was fixing the ironing board, day before he was doing something to the bathroom...It never ends! One day while we were gone, her dad came over and put our dining room table together, like I am too stupid to do it myself. We are renting it for now, and the landlord is who I ask alot of questions to because he is a carpenter/do-it-all guy who knows his stuff well. Every time I ask his opinion on something and he gives me a suggestion, her dad seems to think it won't work and proceeds to give his opinion. She asked me why my parents aren't helping alot, I told her it was because my parents understood it was our house and we want to do alot of it ourselves. I don't even feel like it's our house sometimes, but her parents. I feel like I need to ask Abby! It is just very frustrating and I had to vent somewhere, so here it is BOC!